If you've owned cats, chances are you’ve shared your bed with your feline friend more than once. And while it’s no secret that cats love a good "cat nap", their desire to sleep in your bed with you goes beyond just seeking a snuggly spot!
It's all about the bond...
When your cat chooses to sleep with you, they’re essentially saying, “You’re my family.”
Cats are social creatures, and by sharing your bed they’re reinforcing their bond with you! Just like when they were kittens, when they would pile up with their siblings and mother for warmth and comfort.
Picking out "their space"...
Sleeping in your bed is a way for them to establish their "territory" and hierarchy -- even if you don't have other cats! By sleeping on your blankets and sheets, your cat is mingling their scent with yours, making them feel like they're the lions & tigers of the house in their "jungle".
Just how comfortable are they?
You've probably seen your cats sleep in many positions from the tightest of ball, to the stretchiest of stretches! But what exactly do these sleeping positions signify?
The Ball: When your cat curls up in a ball, it’s a sign of comfort and security. They’re conserving body heat and protecting their vital organs—a natural instinct from their wild ancestors.
The Spooner: If your cat sleeps on their side, they’re feeling relaxed and trusting. This position exposes their belly, which is a vulnerable area, indicating they feel safe in their environment—and with you.
On the back: A cat that sleeps belly-up is showing a high level of trust and contentment. This position is the most vulnerable, so when your cat exposes their stomach, they’re saying they feel completely secure with you.
Twisted: Some cats sleep in seemingly uncomfortable positions, twisting and turning into odd shapes. This usually means they’re extremely relaxed and can let their guard down, feeling safe and at home.
Pillowing: If your cat uses your body—or part of it—as a pillow, it’s not just a search for comfort; it’s a sign of trust and affection. They want to be close to you and feel your warmth and heartbeat.
The Bodyguard: Some cats sleep near their owner’s head or even on their chest. This position can signify a protective instinct, as they position themselves where they can quickly alert you to any danger (or just wake you up for breakfast).
Respecting Each Other’s Space
It can be quite comforting to have your cat sleep with you, but it’s also important that you both get a good night’s sleep! Create a cozy sleeping spot near your bed incase either of you keep each other up with your movements.
It's all about trust & affection!
Snuggling in bed is a sure sign of the trust and affection that reflects the overall relationship you’ve built together. Not all cats like to share the bed with you -- and that's okay! It doesn't mean that they don't trust or love you; it's important to respect each animal for who they are. But if you enjoy your cat’s presence in your bed and want to encourage them snuggling with you regularly, bring them into your room and show them that you welcome them there.
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